Saturday, May 28, 2011
Life Will Go On
Let Chris Issaak intensely tell you his sad but not very gloomy memory.
Thanks Yuna7827 for making this clip.
Life Will Go On
Life will go on
Broken skies, heartaches that flowers won't mend
Say goodbye knowing that this is the end
Tender dreams, shadows fall
Love too sweet, to recall
Dry your eyes, Face the dawn
Life will go on
All day long thought that we still had a chance
Letting go, this is the end of romance
Broken hearts find your way
Make it through just this day
Face the world on your own
Life will go on, life will go on
There'll be blue skies, every true love
Someday I'll hold you again
They'll be blue skies in a better world, darlin'
Tender dreams, shadows fall
Love too sweet, to recall
Dry your eyes, Face the dawn
Life will go on, life will go on
Broken heart find your way
Make it through just this day
Face the world on your own
Life will go on
Monday, May 2, 2011
I Cry
Listen to this song with Shayne Ward here or
Westlife MV is below, thank you Helena for making this.
I prefer Shayne Ward, It seems the pain or loneliness of a broken heart can be touched.
Listen to them and then ... tell me how do you feel? Your heart is getting hurt?
I Cry
You said goodbye
I fell apart
I fell from all we had
To I never knew
I needed you so bad
You need to let things go
I know, you told me so
I've been through hell
To break the spell
Why did I ever let you slip away
Can't stand another day without you
Without the feeling
I once knew
I cry silently
I cry inside of me
I cry hopelessly
Cause I know I'll never breathe your love again
I cry
Cause you're not here with me
I cry
Cause I'm lonely as can be
I cry hopelessly
Cause I know I'll never breathe your love again
If you could see me now
You would know just how
How hard I try
Not to wonder why
I wish I could believe in something new
Oh please somebody tell me it's not true (oh girl)
I'll never be over you
Why did I ever let you slip away
Can't stand another day without you
Without the feeling
I once knew
I cry silently
I cry inside of me
I cry hopelessly
Cause I know I'll never breathe your love again
I cry
Cause you're not here with me
I cry
Cause I'm lonely as can be
I cry hopelessly
Cause I know I'll never breathe your love again
If I could have you back tomorrow
If I could lose the pain and sorrow
I would do just anything
To make you see
You still love me
I cry silently
I cry inside of me
I cry hopelessly
Cause I know I'll never breathe your love again
I cry
Cause you're not here with me
I cry
Cause I'm lonely as can be
I cry hopelessly
Cause I know I'll never breathe your love again
...
Carrot, Egg and Coffee
Enjoy!

A carrot, an egg, and a cup of coffee... You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again.
A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up, She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.
Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil; without saying a word.
In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, ' Tell me what you see.' 'Carrots, eggs, and coffee,' she replied.
Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg.
Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, 'What does it mean, mother?'
Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.
'Which are you?' she asked her daughter. 'When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?
Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?
Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?
Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavour. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you. When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.
Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
You might want to send this message to those people who mean something to you
(I JUST DID);
to those who have touched your life in one way or another;
to those who make you smile when you really need it;
to those who make you see the brighter side of things when you are really down;
to those whose friendship you appreciate;
to those who are so meaningful in your life.
May we all be COFFEE!!
Thursday, April 28, 2011
2011 Spring/Summer ARNALDO STYLE
Just watched Winter Sonata again and again, can not stop crying whenever I touch Junsang's pain, his tears squeezing my heart.
Hope he has drama this year.





... and in pink. He is beautiful in any colours as ever.
But let look at this glance, so alone. His lonely seems can be touched. Please be happy, my Bae.




Bae looks thin, ... too thin. He is not as strong as before, this thinking makes me sad...
Till love him, he is till my idol. He always stays deep in my heart, heal my life sorrow and bring me his courrage.
Bae, please stay safe and sound because of us, because of our love to you.

Thursday, April 21, 2011
Beijing - Spring 2011 (cont)
Yihe Yuan with a large artificial lake and hill built from the year 1750.

and here, the famous The Great Wall of China. Everyday of building period, 5000 workers died and their bodies were buried under this walls.
Beijing - Spring 2011
Many things come with worries and sorrows. Life is not easy for anyone, for love and survival.
Just back from Beijing with many feelings. Beijing is so beautiful in spring with nice weather - 19 - 27 o C at day time, a lot of blossom over the city.
Three full days were not enough to study the ancient city with long history and many legends of people who made the Beijing famous.
Beijing, I will turn back one day...
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Album Winter Sonata
For long, the I watched the Winter Sonata again.
The same feeling with beautiful pictures and the music is wonderful.
The English lyrics for more understanding and see how it goes with the drama. The album has 17 nice songs with very sweet lyric. Read the lyric and you will know why it become one of the most beautiful music
01. From the Beginning Until Now
02. My Memory
03. The First Time
04. Only You
05. From The Beginning Until Now (Instumental)
06. My Memory (Piano & Violin version)
07. The Love I Cannot Send
08. The Beginning
09. Only You (Piano & Violin version)
10. My Memory (Piano version)
11. Don't Forget me
12. Into Memory (Instrumental)
13. Lovers (Chinese version)
14. Violet
15. Only You (Piano version)
16. The First Time (Piano version)
17. Violet (Instrumental)
From the beginning till now
Can't return to my side, it's impossible now
I console myself that I should stop loving you now
If I can't meet you again,
I really hope to forget you, to forget the entire you in my heart
Every time I want to smile, you let me cry
You make my everything go wrong
Every time I think of you, all my defences gave way
Tried hard to forget you, but I just can't
If I can't meet you again,
I really hope to forget you, to forget the entire you in my heart
Every time I want to smile, you let me cry
You make my everything go wrong
Every time I think of you, all my defences give way
I tried hard to forget you, but I just can't forget
I never know it is so hard to love someone
Every time I want to smile, you let me cry
You make my everything go wrong
Every time I think of you, all my defences gave way
Tried hard to forget you, but I just can't
My Memory
My memory
I remember every second of it
Even for trivial things, if I close my eyes, I can still see them
You're far away
I couldn't tell you that I am still in love with you, still waiting for you
It is not even in my dream that I thought we could meet again like this
Therefore, I have to be frank with you: I am still in love with you
I wanna love you forever
If, it is not too late for our fate, I wish I could stay with you forever
For a long time, you have been alive in my heart
No matter how long we have parted, no matter how far you are, you are
always in my heart
It is not even in my dream that I thought we could meet again like this
Therefore, I have to be frank with you: I wanna love you forever
If, it is not too late for our fate, I wish I could stay with you forever
For you
C'est Moi I dream to wake up beside you every morning
C'est Moi You are always far away from me
I can only look at you from far … before you come near
Please give me a chance
Your pale smile … at least I can see it
Now, can you just love me once?
The only one who can love me is you
Now, some other faraway star is shinning in your heart
I can only look at you from far … before you come near
Please give me a chance
Your pale smile … at least I can see it
Now, can you just love me once?
The only one who can love me is you
The Love I Cannot Send
Can we love once more, right from the beginning?
Can we start afresh?
A love that I have put down in the past
That is still in my heart now
Looking at you … remind me about the past
Looking at you … my tears rolled unknowingly
You are so similar to the man I once loved
Can you let me love you?
I don't know if that will hurt again
I want to give you all the love, that is being left
I believe it is you that brought him to my side
Don't leave me
I won't forget this piece of memory
I won't let you leave
A piece of love that is being constructed through much difficulties
The next one I love is still you
I don't know if that will hurt again
I want to give you all the love, that is being left
I believe it is you that brought him to my side
Don't leave me
I won't forget this piece of memory
I won't let you leave
A love that is being constructed through much difficulties
Don't be scare … even if we part this time … the next one I love is still you
Moment
Don't cry, my Love. We still have a long way to go…
Don't move, let me hold you for a moment so that I can remember our fond embrace
Even without words, we know we will always belong to each other
And because I love you so much…
I am willing to let you go in order for you to find true happiness
Promise me, you will come back to me someday
Promise me, you will be happy … even without me.
It hurts too much to see you tormented by our love for so long
Even without words, we know we will always belong to each other
And because I love you so much…
I am willing to let you go in order for you to find true happiness
Promise me, you will come back to me someday
Promise me, you will be happy … even without me.
It hurts so much to see you tormented by our love for so long
I am sorry for being unable to protect you
I have to leave everything behind, so that you can
leave me… do that for me, please…
Just remember this moment and leave me, promise me
Don't Forget Me
Don't forget the bits and pieces
Even when I am not around … do not forget
No matter it is in the beginning or for now
My love is so close … yet so far
I'll wait for you
No matter where you are … I'll wait for you
Till I look for you
Just like the beginning
Even though I am a little late
Forget me not, forget me not … till I locate your whereabouts
I'll wait for you
No matter where you are … I'll wait for you
Till I look for you
Just like the beginning
Even though I am a little late
Forget me not, forget me not … till I locate your whereabouts
Saturday, December 26, 2009
Embracing Imperfection
Thinking of the way I criticize others' mistakes make I feel very shameful. I could make people who are close with me more happiness and more motivated! Anyhow, late is better than never, I will try my best to do like the Dad in the story did.
Read this story and recall if you ever hurt any one ?

When I was a little girl, my mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then.
And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work. On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage, and extremely burned toast in front of my dad.
I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his toast, smile at my mom, and ask me how my day was at school.
I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that toast and eat every bite!
When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad for burning the toast. And I'll never forget what he said. "Baby, I love burned toast."
Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night, and I asked him if he really liked his toast burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said,
"Debbie, your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides-a little burnt toast never hurt anyone! You know, life is full of imperfect things...and imperfect people. I'm not the best housekeeper or cook."
What I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each others' faults - and choosing to celebrate each others' differences - is the one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.
Burnt toast should never be a deal breaker. We could extend this to any relationship in fact - as understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship!
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket - but into your own!
People will always forget what you do, and they will always forget what you say, but they will never, ever forget the way you make them feel.
Friday, December 25, 2009
Thanks for your time!
Hope you like and enjoy the story like I do.
A young man learn what's most important in life from the man next door
It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man. College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams. There, in the rush of his busy life, Jack had little time to think about the pa st and often no time to spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him.
Over the phone, his mother told him, 'Mr. Belser died last night. The funeral is Wednesday..' Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days.
'Jack, did you hear me?'
'Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It's been so long since I thought of him. I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago,' Jack said.
'Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you were doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of the fence' as he put it,' Mom told him.
'I loved that old house he lived in,' Jack said.
'You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man's influence in your life,' she said.
'He's the one who taught me carpentry,' he said. 'I wouldn't be in this business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important...Mom, I'll be there for the funeral,' Jack said.
As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away.
The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time.
Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time. The house was exactly as he remembered. Every step held memories. Every picture, every piece of furniture....Jack stopped suddenly.
'What's wrong, Jack?' his Mom asked.
'The box is gone,' he said
'What box?' Mom asked.
'There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell me was 'the thing I value most,' Jack said.
It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it.
'Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him,' Jack said. 'I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom.'
It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died. Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. 'Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days,' the note read.
Early the next day Jack retrieved the
package. The small box was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention. 'Mr. Harold Belser' it read.
Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There inside was the gold box and an envelope.
Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside. 'Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life.' A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch.
Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover.
Inside he found these words engraved:
'Jack, Thanks for your time! -Harold Belser.'
'The thing he valued most was...my time'
Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days.
'Why?' Janet, his assistant asked.
'I need some time to spend with my son,' he said.
'Oh, by the way, Janet, thanks for your time!'
'Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away,'
Think about this. You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.
1. At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die for you.
2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.
3. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.
4. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.
5. You mean the world to someone.
6. If not for you, someone may not be living.
7. You are special and unique.
8. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you trust God to do what's best, and wait on His time, sooner or later, you will get it or something better.
9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good can still come from it.
10. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world.
11. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.
12. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.
13 . Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much better when they know and you'll both be happy.
14. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they are great.
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Wonderful San Francisco



The small path beside the coastal in a light- sun day, sometime it becomes cold with frogg and cold wind from the sea. You need to hold your collar to keep warm and wonder where the sun hidden in just a moment.


San Francisco is beautiful with hills to hills and very special housing and architecture.
The Golden Gate Bridge, Lombard street, Presidio, Alkatraz Island, and more to give you very special experience.
Sunday, August 30, 2009
Bae's smile

His eyes are too clear and filled with warm glance.
I love and collect all his photos without glasses. Anyhow, Bae is elegant and handsome terribly with glasses. See...

And his lips, a perfect lips with famous kiling smile!

I love the corner of the lips, deep and charm!