How much is not too much?

How much you are expecting to your lover?
How much is just good enough to please the one but not disturb him?
How much is not too much?
I have the such questions from one of my friend.


I did answer to her that we must find the way to please ourselves.
Loving someone is not easy. We love then we become very demanding, of course just with the one, then we have high expectation. We expect the one should be, should do, understand, ... like this, like that, etc. more than other ones.
Unfortunately, the one we love is normal person, not a hero and very intelligent one. Even he /she is, he/she can not too smart to understand everything from every moment.

So how much is good? Good for feel being love and take care by the lover?

I suggest if we can, we could not expect. Let love devote to you what it can give.

You love and being love, just please yourself. Not from other, then you will be happy.